Day 69 Chisel Agility

Ok what was I thinking about honestly this morning when I got up? I was saying to myself I can lead a horse to water, but I can't make him drink. And that's because it has to be an intrinsic motivation from the client too. This past week I had some amazing conversations with people, new people who asked me for their guidance, who are upset about their current state. Some of these people I was so intrigued by and I could have sat over dinner and talked with them for hours, we had so much in common...Some of them joined me and I am super excited about that. Because I 'know' what awaits them. The others? It does make me sad because the opportunity to change is R I G H T there for the taking, but they won't. 

The thing is WE are responsible for change. Ourselves and no one else. And the change can happen in an instant. The moment I said 'I have had enough' and started exercising and changing my diet to sugar free whole eating, that's all it was . A couple of seconds in time.  But it took so long, several years to get my s*** together. So yes, I feel for those who will be skeptical of me, or doubt their own abilities to change, or will sink back into the same routine where nothing is changing, and they'll continue to talk about what they don't want. What they don't like. Yet no decision to change. And all the things they claim are making them unhappy will still be there tomorrow morning. That sort of phenomenon does sadden me. But I keep pushing forward for myself, for those who are ready for a change. Who need that change to LIVE. I am 'only' here to 'guide' them because the patterns they will enact, the intrinsic motivation is as the word describes: from 'within' each of them. Not from me. 

~Jedi